Difference between 엄마 vs 어머니 vs 어머님

Difference between 엄마 어머니 어머님

When watching Korean drama you may notice there are a few ways to address or refer to one’s mother. 엄마, 어머니 or 어머님 can all refer to mother in Korean. There are specific situations where each should be used so let’s look at each term one by one.


엄마 is the affectionate way of someone calling one’s mother or refering to one’s mother to another person. According to the standard dictionary usage, adults should call their mother 어머니 instead but many people use 엄마 anyway as it feels more close. It can literally translate into ‘mom’. Examples:

  • 엄마, 밥 주세요. (Mom, please give me rice.)
  • 우리 엄마가 요리를 잘 해요. (My mom is good at cooking.)


어머니 can literally translate into ‘mother’. You can also address your mother or refer to your/someone’s mother as 어머니. Also it is the word to use if you refer to mothers in general instead of a particular person. These can best be illustrated by the below examples:

  • 저희 할게요, 어머니. (Let us do it, mother.)
  • 우리 어머니께서 편찮으시다. (My mother is not well.)
  • 성재는 어머니를 꼭 닮았다. (Songjae looks just like his mother.)
  • 어머니 역할 (A mother’s role)
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We can say that 어머님 is the polite form of 어머님 but we have to use it carefully in practice. 어머님 is usually only used when addressing or referring to one’s mother-in-law or one’s mother who has passed away. It is also used when you address or refer to a mother of someone about your own age (‘auntie’). Be careful not to refer to your living mother as 어머님!

  • 어머님은 좀 어떠세요? (How is your mother doing?)
  • 이 영예를 돌아가신 어머님과 나누고 싶다. (I wish I could share this honor with my deceased mother.)
  • 어머님을 뵈러 왔습니다. (I came to see my mother-in-law.)


Occasionally we also hear 어미 as well. This is the low form of 어머니 and can be used when 1. a mother is referring to oneself in front of her children, 2. parents referring to their daugther who is married and has children or 3. a man referring to his wife who have children between them.

  • 어미는 괜찮으니 너희들 다 먹어. ([To one’s children] Mom is okay so you guys can eat all the food.)
  • 어미가 해 온 음식 어떠셨어요? ([To one’s parent] What do you think of the food my wife made?)
  • 여보, 어미가 서방이랑 이따 저녁에 온다네요.  ([To one’s spouse] Dear, our daugther said she and son-in-law will come to have dinner with us in a bit.)

A final note, while all the above expressions apply to mother, there are equivalents for father: 아빠, 아버지, 아버님 and 아비 respectively.

Reference: KBS World Korean ‘아빠’ ‘아버지’ ‘아버님’ (Korean only)

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